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101 ESL Conversation Topics to Break the Silence

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ESL Conversation Starters

Looking for that missing element that will help your ESL conversation classes sparkle, shine and speak English?

Leading an engaging ESL conversation class isn’t something you can just pull off at the drop of a hat. But these tricks can help you go from zero to ESL hero. As a matter of fact, the one big secret is having…

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101 ESL conversation topics from a hat.

101 ESL Conversation Topics From a Hat

How many times have you been in an ESL conversation class and just couldn’t get your students to speak?

In the classroom and in everyday life, we need conversation starters or ice breakers to end the silence. Arguably, there’s nothing stranger than silence in a conversation class!

Here’s how you do it:

Before you start the school year, dedicate some time to preparing a list of free talking topics (see below).

First, print the conversation topics below. Second, cut each topic and put them in a hat. Finally, have them attached to your hip whenever you’re in need.

You can either open the whole classroom for discussion or have them speak in pairs. Furthermore, these ESL conversation topics are great for filling in any extra time at the end of the class or ice breakers at the start of a lesson.

And if you’d like more free ESL activities for your classroom, don’t forget to check out our other lists to engage your students in English. All are free and can be used for any purpose.

Either way, the goal is to get them practicing in English.

Culture Differences for Kids

  • High schools (Do students wear special school attire like uniforms? Can students drive to their high school? Can students drink water in class?)
  • Country work ethic (How long are typical work hours? Do students work after graduating?)
  • School clubs (What unique school clubs are there? Which club are you in? Why did you choose that club?)
  • Holidays (What is your favorite holiday? What type of food do you eat on specific holidays?)
  • Jobs (What jobs exist? Is it easy to get a job after graduation? Is it easy to find a job now?)
  • Pop culture (Who are pop culture icons in your home country?)
  • Video games (Do you play video games? What types of video games are popular?)
  • Parenting and punishment (What kind of punishment have you received at school or home? Do you believe in physical punishment?)

Culture Differences for Adults

  • Restaurant tips (Are tips at restaurants common? How much is a reasonable tip?)
  • Work dinner parties (Do wives and husbands attend work parties?)
  • Gestures (What are some unique gestures (thumbs up, middle finger, etc) in your country?)
  • Gift exchange (When you travel, is it common to exchange gifts? How about Christmas or any other holidays?)
  • Living with parents (How old do kids live with their parents?)
  • Greetings (How do you greet in your country? Do you bow or do handshakes?)
  • Safety and crime (Do you think your neighborhood is safe? What kind of crimes happen in your area?)
  • Punctuality (How often are friends late? How about buses and trains? Is it rude being late?)
  • Food and health (What is a typical meal? How healthy is it? Are gyms becoming more popular?)
  • Sports (How do sports players show respect after a game? Are there any unique sports in your country?)
  • Multiculturalism (Is your country multicultural? Is multiculturalism a good thing?)
  • Gender discrimination (Do women and men make the same amount of money for doing the same job? Is there much gender discrimination in your home country?)

If you…

  • If you had one wish, what would it be?
  • If you were rich, what would you do?
  • If you could be a celebrity for a day, which celebrity would you be?
  • If you were the principal at school, what would you change?
  • If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
  • If you were on a deserted island, what would you bring and why?
  • If you could be any animal for a day, what would it be and why?
  • If you could have any superpower, what would you pick and why?
  • If you could pack only 3 items for your next trip, what would they be?
  • If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  • If you could travel to the moon, would you like to go?
  • If you win the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?
  • If you owned an island to yourself, what rules would you implement?
  • If they could pick a Halloween costume to dress up as on Halloween, what would it be?
  • If you could be born at a different time period, when would it be?
  • If you could change the past, would you do it?
  • If you could make a movie, which celebrity would you pick as yourself?
  • If you found a large amount of money, what would you do?
  • If you could change anything about your country, what would you change?
  • If you could be born in another country, which one would you pick?
  • If you could do your dream job 10 years from now, which job would you choose?

Have you ever…

  • Have you ever traveled out of your home country?
  • Have you ever cried when watching a movie? If yes, which one?
  • Have you ever experienced culture shock?
  • Have you ever wanted to get a tattoo or piercing?
  • Have you ever laughed so much that it made you cry?
  • Have you ever been lost and couldn’t find directions?
  • Have you ever fallen in love? If no, do you want to find love?
  • Have you ever won a trophy? If yes, which competition did you win?
  • Have you ever read a book that changed your life?
  • Have you ever been to Disneyland or an amazing theme park?
  • Have you ever had a dream that felt like it was real?
  • Have you ever seen something supernatural or paranormal?
  • Have you ever ridden a horse?
  • Have you ever had imaginary friends when you were young?
  • Have you ever had to go to the hospital?
  • Have you ever been outside your home country?
  • Have you ever experienced a natural disaster?
  • Have you ever owned a pet?
  • Have you ever donated anything to the poor?
  • Have you ever seen a car accident?

Would you rather…

  • Would rather be very intelligent or very good-looking?
  • Would you rather have a pet dog or cat?
  • Would you rather grow up going to school in your home country or another one?
  • Would you rather be a professional athlete or a celebrity actor?
  • Would you rather live forever or until 100 years old?
  • Would you rather live in the mountains or on the beach?
  • Would you rather bungee jump or skydive?
  • Would you rather be rich or find true love?
  • Would you rather walk backward or talk backward for the rest of your life?
  • Would you rather explore the oceans or outer space?
  • Would you rather live in an apartment or a house?
  • Would you rather be invisible or super fast?
  • Would you rather live in a country that is always cold or hot?
  • Would you rather live in the city or a small town?
  • Would you rather be a jack-of-all-trades or master one?
  • Would you rather ride an elephant or swim with dolphins?
  • Would you rather be rich and depressed or broke and happy?
  • In the past or future, when would you rather travel?
  • Would you rather eat rice or bread with every meal?
  • Would you rather use the internet or books as your main source of information?

Controversial

  • How do you deal with stress?
  • What is the best advice you have ever received?
  • Do you think aliens exist?
  • Is climate change real?
  • What age is best to start dating?
  • What personality traits do you want in your boyfriend or girlfriend?
  • Have you ever had a problem with bullying?
  • Are girls smarter than boys?
  • In the future, how many children do you want to have?
  • What makes a good teacher?
  • Who was your hero when you were a child?
  • What is the worst purchase you have made?
  • Would you rather know how you die or when you die?
  • What was the best holiday you’ve been on?
  • Is there any strange food in your country?
  • What are some inventions you hope to see in the future?
  • What is the most embarrassing moment of your life?
  • Would you ever try online dating?
  • What is on your bucket list?
  • Do you believe in any religions?
  • When was the last time you cried?

With 5 Minutes Left, What Do You Do?

All things considered, 101 ESL conversation topics from a hat is a fantastic end of the class time filler.

When you run out of things to do, pull out the hat and pick a topic. Otherwise, your class would just be sitting there twiddling their thumbs.

Strangely enough, a lot of teachers don’t equip themselves with back-up activities.

Now, you don’t have to sweat it out and watch the clock tick until the bell rings.

29 Comments

  1. There are many valuable questions here, and some which are inappropriate for some students. I think it is part of the teachers job to know their students and choose topics appropriate to their age, gender, culture etc. On the whole there are many inspirational topics to choose from here as a springboard to develop your own, perhaps more relevant, questions while still appreciating the efforts and work of the original source.

  2. On the whole, very useful.
    I have taught in Asia for 20+ years. On the whole, STFU about love and dating. You come across as a lech. Plus countries like China and Japan do not need any more Western cultural poison.

  3. Sorry but “Is climate change real” is NOT a topic for conversation! It’s like saying ‘Is COVID real’ !!!!
    I’d suggest instead, ‘How do we deal with climate change’

  4. Great questions.

    As for potentially inappropriate questions, I would hope that every teacher has enough sense to decide what is appropriate or not for their students depending on age, maturity level, cultural norms/taboos, class dynamic, etc.

    I’ve had classes where I would never think of asking some of these questions, and I’ve had classes where we’ve probably discussed all of these topics along with issues that are way more controversial. And those were some of my best classes.

    Consider your class and use your best judgement.

    Thanks for sharing!

  5. Thanks for your work, splendid to liven up conversation in class. Thanks for the kindness of your generosity to share this.
    I believe it is crucial to be thankful and to contribute, and not just criticize.
    Thanks again

  6. While there are some useful questions here, I’d be wary about asking questions regarding love and dating, as well as outdated gender ideology that reflects one’s own personal biases. For example, the gender wage gap has been debunked by all credible economists. 5 minutes googling will reveal to you why some men and women earn more than other men and women, and it’s nothing to do with gender. So with that and similar questions you’re bound to come into conflict with students with traditional conservative feminist views on wage differences, or ruin the group dynamic of a class of mixed gender students.

  7. These are wonderful and diverse topics to break the ice in a ESL class. Thank you for great selection of topics.

  8. I loved it! thank you so much, I’ve been learning English for 9 months and my skill at talking has been improving every day more thanks to these topics

  9. I find most of these questions helpful and interesting, so I thank you for that, but there are questions that I think are inappropriate to ask your students, particularly the questions about love, dating, and crying. I also found multiple grammar errors in this article. For example:

    “Have you ever had imaginary friends when you were young?”
    “In the past or future, when would you rather travel to the ?”

    1. Depending on your class, age and level of maturity, I agree the questions about love and dating could be inappropriate. But of course, every situation is different.

  10. I was talking with a 12 year old in KSA whose younger 8 year old brother had gone to a farm earlier in the day. It turns out he goes to this farm every day.

    Kids Love animals.

    ask if You had a farm,

    what kind of animals would You have?
    describe the animals. describe their behavior.
    what color is each animal? size?
    what would You feed each animal?

    This is a good place to start. just my idea.

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